Being a parent I'm constantly thinking about my actions and whether they're enabling vs learning in regards to my children. I believe my Mum's approach allowed me to learn, making me independent and self reliant. But sometimes her approach left me feeling unprotected. It's a natural response for me to over compensated in trying to 'protect' my children. I have to be mindful to back off and allow them to learn their lessons. Walking the fine line of enough nurture for safe development.
Hello Jean, I just came across this and discovered I hadn't replied. Thank you for sharing your insight - I think it is a natural response too and related to our own programming. It was interesting to skim this article after not having read it for a while. I recognise that I too, am still learning to respect that my adult children are complete souls in a physical body having experiences to evolve. And when I forget I am thankful for reminders like your message. Love, Michelle x
This is an absolutely brilliant and informative article. Incredibly true too. Thank you Michelle.
Thank you for the feedback Jacki. Much gratitude x
Being a parent I'm constantly thinking about my actions and whether they're enabling vs learning in regards to my children. I believe my Mum's approach allowed me to learn, making me independent and self reliant. But sometimes her approach left me feeling unprotected. It's a natural response for me to over compensated in trying to 'protect' my children. I have to be mindful to back off and allow them to learn their lessons. Walking the fine line of enough nurture for safe development.
Hello Jean, I just came across this and discovered I hadn't replied. Thank you for sharing your insight - I think it is a natural response too and related to our own programming. It was interesting to skim this article after not having read it for a while. I recognise that I too, am still learning to respect that my adult children are complete souls in a physical body having experiences to evolve. And when I forget I am thankful for reminders like your message. Love, Michelle x