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J P Cowles's avatar

Gardening and being with my pets is a great way for me to recharge. My pets help me feel joy, which is very therapeutic when I am suffering from stress, anxiety and depression. Gardening helps me to ground myself and be present with nature. I love my plants and care about them and feel better when I know they're looked after. Also going to the beach when I can. Being immersed in water a very meditative and healing. Reading a book, listening to a podcast, painting and studying are things I prioritise nowadays to keep myself healthy. I realise I need to make time for myself to relax and enjoy life.

Being a parent I'm constantly thinking about my actions and whether they're enabling vs learning in regards to my children. I believe my Mum's approach allowed me to learn, making me independent and self reliant. But sometimes her approach left me feeling unprotected. It's a natural response for me to over compensated in trying to 'protect' my children. I have to be mindful to back off and allow them to learn their lessons. Walking the fine line of enough nurture for safe development.

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Suzanna Twickler's avatar

Beautiful and healing words. Thanks Michelle xxx Suzanna

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