Love More
Love more. There is no other answer for what we focus on we expand and because the opposite creates ... more of the opposite.
The more we desire to control difference and seek to homogenise, the more difference we create. What we focus on expands - it is a vibrational law.
Resistance whether in the form of overt judgment, dismissal, denigration, or denial only creates more resistance.
Friction.
Factions.
Fundamentalism.
The truth is, what we cannot accept in others we usually struggle to accept in ourselves.
In the world of healing, when we catch ourselves repeating certain phrases…
[ thing/person/etc] is annoying, irritating, frustrating…
or
I hate, can’t stand, resent [thing/person/etc]… and so on, our Higher Self is using the situation to ask how the emotion is playing out for us. How are we annoying ourselves? And it is usually something between head and heart. For example, how is the head’s actions annoying the heart?
And the more we resist, the more we notice the very thing we resist!
In a clinic setting, experiencing intolerance for others is usually our Higher Self’s way of getting our attention and asking us to focus on how we are perceiving ourselves as lacking in some way.
Truly, we are all separate fragments of the same energy. Energy that is perfect and without discrimination. As infants we embody this, however, over time our social conditioning suppresses this innate knowlege. Our experiences, however, do not define us unless we let them. When we remember who and what we are, we can let ourselves rise from the limitations we accepted.
Finally, this does not mean that we allow others’ opinions or actions to override ours. By holding love for the other and creating healthy boundaries when our sovereignty is compromised, we step out of drama.
Each taking back our power and stepping out of judgment, resistance, and drama, has the power to unshackle ourselves from the hamster wheel or cycle of low vibration energy and experiences. Isn’t that worth the ‘work’ of controlling our Egos?
Change is ultimately up to us.
Blessings
Michelle x
Michelle Cowles
Spiritual Leader/Teacher/Learner
Copyright Michelle Cowles 2024
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